How you can help

Since finding out the news about Jonathan, we have had many people ask us how they can help, or what they can do. As we continue this journey, we have learned what we need.

First off, Danny and I have come to a place of believing for Jonathan's complete healing. We thank everyone for standing with us in prayer. We are hopeful and recognize there is a fine line of faith and thinking about the possibilities, which I'll address in another post.


As for helping, one thing we have really appreciated is time spent with people. This allows us to share our emotions and thoughts freely. We recognize this is not an easy journey that we are asking you to join us on. We rely heavily on the Lord and each other, but we need all of you. We need people who will allow us to be open and vulnerable, loving us by asking questions and sharing in Jonathan's story.

We also find it's good for us to keep having fun with others. One great example would be to ask us to dinner one night. We also enjoy games. Ultimately, we just need to keep laughing and experiencing life with you. With everything going on with us, we need your help to plan these times.

Finally, we are working to focus on Jonathan's story of life and hope. Knowing he's been diagnosed with Trisomy 18, we have read and heard stories of other families that have gone through the same thing. At this time, it's difficult for us to keep hearing these stories because it brings doubt where we want to stand strong in faith. While we appreciate the thought in sharing these stories, we ask that you think about the potential effects on us.

These are just a few ways that you can help us but there are many other ways to reach out. Know that we appreciate any support that you give and are truly thankful for what's already been done.